In this week’s Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm, Justin, and Rebecca — dive deep (and laugh hard) about happiness, grief, guilt, and intrusive thoughts. From Taylor Swift’s controversial new album to the realities of loss, guilt when life feels good again, and the magic of being present,…
Ever wake up at 3 a.m. replaying every bad decision you’ve ever made? Justin Caffrey and Colm Hayes get brutally honest about overthinking, sleepless nights, and the voices in your head that won’t shut up. In this episode of Not So Christian Brothers, the trio dive into intrusive thoughts, anxiety,…
After opening up about losing his wife of 35 years, Colm returns with Justin and Rebecca for the Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow. The brothers reflect on grief, therapy, and the journey of rebuilding connection — with humour, honesty, and heart. Justin shares why a therapist once told him he…
This episode is a special one. Justin welcomes his brother Colm back to the studio after the heartbreaking loss of his wife Anne. What follows is one of the most raw and powerful conversations we’ve ever had on Not So Christian Brothers. Colm speaks with honesty about love, loss, and…
Irish funerals are like nothing else in the world. 🇮🇪 In this Aftershow of Not So Christian Brothers, Rebecca, Justin, and Beatrice dive into the unique Irish tradition of remembering loved ones through four simple objects. From blankets and dog leads to football boots and coffee cups, these symbols capture…
This week’s episode of Not So Christian Brothers begins with a heavy heart. Justin's brother and co-host Colm lost his wife, Anne, last week after a long and courageous battle with cancer. Our thoughts and prayers are with Colm and his children, Alex and Holly. We hope to have him…
Childhood labels, hidden trauma, and the question of destiny — are we shaped by nature, nurture, or the stories we tell ourselves? Are we born to succeed or fail… or can we change the script? ❤️ Note to Listeners Before we dive in, we want to pause. Colm’s beautiful wife…
This week’s Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow looks a little different… with Colm away and Terry missing in action, Rebecca and Beatrice take over the mic — with Justin looking on nervously in the corner. Following Beatrice’s special episode, the Aftershow dives into: - 20 years of marriage — what…
Do men really share the load at home? Or do old roles still rule modern marriages? In this Not So Christian Brothers special, Beatrice Caffrey steps in for Colm (away on personal matters) and Rebecca (on holiday) to join her husband, Justin Caffrey, for an unfiltered conversation about marriage, masculinity,…
But just when you think it’s all laughs, Rebecca shares a harrowing personal story from her holiday (Caution When Listening), witnessing a man collapse and die on the beach in front of his wife and children. The conversation turns raw, heartbreaking, and deeply human. This Aftershow is pure chaos —…
A mic dies mid-show, Justin rushes his son to A&E, Colm relives a live-radio disaster, and Rebecca serves a DM about the friend who never, ever pays. From a Chris Evans moment at CarFest to a debate on control (do we have any?), this episode is messy, honest, and very…
Not So Christian Brothers is a raw, funny, and unfiltered podcast where brothers Justin Caffrey (Gen X) and Colm Hayes (Baby Boomer) take on life, masculinity, and everything in between. Expect honest conversations, sharp banter, and stories you’ll relate to. Producer Rebecca Horan joins for the Aftershow, bringing her wit,…
In this Aftershow of Not So Christian Brothers, Rebecca joins Colm and Justin to bring a female lens to the big questions: why do men fear joy, is loneliness an inevitable part of life, and can AI ever replace real human connection? Rebecca challenges the guys’ stoic realism with her…
Not So Christian Brothers Podcast | Is AI Going to Destroy the World? (And Why Men Feel Invisible) In this episode of Not So Christian Brothers, Justin, Colm, and Rebecca go full throttle on two big topics: the rise of AI and ChatGPT (is it going to save us or…
This week on the Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow, Rebecca jumps in as we pull apart the episode, wander into the weeds, and laugh far too much along the way. With Colm, Rebecca, and Justin at the mic, the conversation gets even messier: do good looks really buy you trust,…
This week on Not So Christian Brothers, the news gets hotter than the headlines. Colm, Rebecca, and Justin dive into the strange reality that in America, your news anchor has to look like a model just to distract you from how bad things really are. From Fox News to white…
Submit your questions at notsochristianbrothers.com This is the follow-up to Episode 3 of Not So Christian Brothers, and this time, the spotlight turns inward. Rebecca Horan, our no-nonsense producer, grabs the mic and grabs control, dragging Justin and Colm back into the studio to answer for their crimes (verbal and…
Do men lie more easily than women? This week we dig into one of the conversations men should be having — but don’t. Episode Intro: • Colm’s a draw dropping moment he had with a stranger on a plane • A listeners question on lying • Then they discuss how…
Hold tight and please contain your OUTRAGE until the end. Put your THOUGHTS in the COMMENTS This is the follow-up to Episode 2 of Not So Christian Brothers, and this time, the spotlight turns inward. Rebecca Horan, our no-nonsense producer, grabs the mic and grabs control, dragging Justin and Colm…
“Sex, Booze, and Barbara” --🎙️ Not So Christian Brothers | Episode 2 Listener Barbara sends in a DM that kicks off one hell of a conversation: “I can only have sex with my husband after a few drinks. Is this normal?” Cue a brutally honest debate between Colm and Justin…
Hold tight and please contain your OUTRAGE until the end. Put your THOUGHTS in the COMMENTS This is the follow-up to Episode 1 of Not So Christian Brothers, and this time, the spotlight turns inward. Rebecca Horan, our no-nonsense producer, grabs the mic and grabs control, dragging Justin and Colm…
Welcome to the first episode of Not So Christian Brothers — the Irish podcast that was nearly cancelled before it began. Formerly known as Brothers in Arms (until the lawyers got involved), this rebranded debut throws you straight into the chaotic brotherhood of Justin Caffrey and Colm Hayes — same…
