Sept. 5, 2025

The Aftershow: Loose Hyphens, Tight Wallets & Life’s Unpredictable Punch

The Aftershow: Loose Hyphens, Tight Wallets & Life’s Unpredictable Punch

From bathroom banter to a raw story of loss, laughter, tension, and truths you didn’t see coming.

But just when you think it’s all laughs, Rebecca shares a harrowing personal story from her holiday (Caution When Listening), witnessing a man collapse and die on the beach in front of his wife and children. The conversation turns raw, heartbreaking, and deeply human.


This Aftershow is pure chaos — and we wouldn’t have it any other way.


Justin, Colm, and Rebecca spiral from jokes about loose hyphens, perimenopause, and Japan’s luxury toilets into a heated debate on stingy friends, cutting people out of your life, and what sobriety really does to friendships.


This is Not So Christian Brothers at its most unpredictable: equal parts comedy, confession, and confrontation with life’s fragility.

If you’ve ever questioned your friendships, wrestled with cutting ties, or just needed a reminder that life can turn on a dime, this episode will hit you hard — and keep you laughing along the way.


⏱️ Chapter Timelines

  • 00:00 – Trigger Warning & Kickoff – Justin preps listeners for a tough ending
  • 00:18 – Bathroom Banter – Colm’s constant need to pee, loose hyphens & perimenopause jokes
  • 01:12 – Aftershow Madness – Names, producers, and the Gay Byrne mix-up story
  • 02:45 – Karen vs. Jessica – The evolution of cultural name-calling
  • 04:06 – Stingy Friends & Money Etiquette – When tightness tips friendships over the edge
  • 05:52 – Japan Toilet Tour – Heated passion for high-tech loos
  • 07:10 – Cutting People Out – Justin on “weeding your friendship garden”
  • 08:54 – Sobriety & Shifting Friendships – Who stays, who leaves, and why
  • 11:11 – The Judgment of Sobriety – Are sober friends secretly seen as superior?
  • 13:00 – Rebecca’s Holiday Trauma – Witnessing a sudden death on the beach
  • 17:58 – Echoes of the Past – Justin shares Beatrice’s childhood tragedy
  • 19:22 – Desensitization vs. Real Life – Why live trauma hits different than TV news
  • 20:26 – The Dark Beauty of Chaos – Reflections on fragility, privilege, and guilt
  • 21:06 – Closing Out – Gratitude, raw honesty, and a reminder to love fiercely



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