Dec. 20, 2025

Terry: "Men Only Want One Thing!" (The Friendship Debate Explodes)

Terry: "Men Only Want One Thing!" (The Friendship Debate Explodes)

Why you can't be friends with an ex, the "Stalker" story, and Colm’s sponge bath confession.

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Season 4

The "Not So Christian Brothers" AfterShow descends into chaos as producer Rebecca takes the therapy chair (Justin is still MIA) and Terry unleashes his most controversial opinion yet.


We pick up right where the main show left off with the ultimate debate: Can men and women really be just friends?Terry argues a hard "NO," claiming that if a man has a female friend, he either has slept with her or wants to . This leads to a heated clash with Rebecca and Colm, who insist their own friendship proves him wrong.


Also in this episode:

  • Sponge Bath Trauma: Colm and Rebecca get weirdly specific about "sponging" and what it reminds them of (it’s not a spa day) .
  • The "Louisa in the Bakery" Test: Terry asks if his wife would be upset if he suddenly became best friends with a random woman he met on the street. The answer? Probably yes .
  • The Stalker Story: Colm reveals he’s had two stalkers in his radio career, one of which he had to report to the police .
  • Chasing vs. Being Chased: Why Colm has never been chased by a woman in his life .



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🗓️ Release Date: Sunday, 21/12/2025



⏱️ Chapter Timings

  • 00:00 – Intro: The "Sponging" Conversation (It gets weird) 
  • 02:40 – The Debate Returns: Can men and women be friends? 
  • 03:29 – Terry’s Bombshell: "Men only want one thing" 
  • 05:57 – The "Only Friends With My Wife’s Friends" Rule 
  • 06:35 – The "Louisa in the Bakery" Scenario 
  • 08:52 – The Whisper Text: Sending late-night messages from bed 
  • 10:01 – Getting Caught: Do cheaters want to be found out? 
  • 13:47 – What if a platonic friend confessed their love 5 years later? 
  • 15:30 – Rebecca’s "I’m Madly In Love With You" Horror Story 
  • 17:13 – Do men like being chased? (Colm has never been chased) 
  • 18:31 – Colm’s Stalker Story (Teaser for January!)



📌 Important Listener Notes

  • New Shows: New episodes of the Not So Christian Brothers podcast are released every Thursday & Sunday.
  • Justin Update: Justin will be back next week for the Christmas Special!.
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