Oct. 19, 2025

Fueled by Anger or Freed by Forgiveness? The Aftershow Gets Personal

Fueled by Anger or Freed by Forgiveness? The Aftershow Gets Personal

Taylor Swift, Mariah Carey, and the Madness of Letting Go — Colm, Justin, and Rebecca spill their unfiltered truths on anger, revenge, and moving on.

It’s Sunday, and the hangover from Thursday’s episode on forgiveness is still brewing.


Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan are back — a little raw, a little caffeinated, and absolutely not ready to forgive.

From Taylor Swift and Mariah Carey to business betrayals, heartbreak, and hospital trauma, this aftershow turns reflection into revelation. Colm argues that anger fuels success, while Justin opens up about his past, therapy, and losing his son — and how forgiveness saved him.

Rebecca keeps the chaos grounded as the conversation drifts from revenge to redemptionCatholic guilt to Protestant freedom, and even Trump’s ego to South Dublin snobbery.


This is Not So Christian Brothers at its best: raw, real, and roaring with uncomfortable truths.

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Ever been told to “let it go”? Colm thinks that’s nonsense.

Justin says forgiveness is the only way to survive.

Rebecca’s just trying to stop them from throwing microphones.

In this brutally honest Aftershow, the trio dive into what really drives people — anger, pain, or peace? From family and faith to fame and failure, it’s the episode that proves growth doesn’t come from calm... it comes from chaos.

Whether you’re the grudge-holder or the peacekeeper, this one will hit home.


⏱️ Chapter Timings

  • 00:00 – 01:00: Mariah Carey, Taylor Swift & the power of pop queens
  • 01:00 – 03:00: Forgiveness recap — Colm’s “never forgive” manifesto
  • 03:00 – 06:00: Anger as strength vs forgiveness as freedom
  • 06:00 – 09:00: Justin’s powerful story — grief, loss, and letting go
  • 09:00 – 11:30: Does anger make you successful?
  • 11:30 – 13:00: Rebecca opens up about bullying and resilience
  • 13:00 – 15:00: Irish education, class, and the South Dublin struggle
  • 15:00 – 17:30: Religion, repression, and the guilt that shapes us
  • 17:30 – End: Sunday scaries, leadership, and life’s endless lessons


🗓 Release Date: Sunday, 19 October 2025

🎙 Next Episode: Thursday, 23 October 2025

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