Aug. 14, 2025
Did he just say THAT about MARRIED SEX? Honest Talk From Two Brothers
“Sex, Booze, and Barbara” --🎙️ Not So Christian Brothers | Episode 2
Listener Barbara sends in a DM that kicks off one hell of a conversation:
“I can only have sex with my husband after a few drinks. Is this normal?”
Cue a brutally honest debate between Colm and Justin that covers:
Sober sex vs. sex on booze or drugs
Scheduled sex in long-term marriages (Justin is all for it – Colm is horrified)
Menopause, honesty, and bedroom communication
Catholic guilt, libido, and how tequila might be the answer (or not)
From awkward truths to completely unqualified advice, this episode doesn’t hold back.
🚨 PLUS:
We take a detour into celebrity breakups, why they dominate headlines, and which brother really couldn’t care less. (Hint: It’s not the one ranting about Gwyneth Paltrow.)
📺 Full video here on YouTube
🎧 Also available on all the usual places you get your podcasts
🔔 Subscribe for unfiltered takes, big laughs, and zero therapy credentials.
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Meet your hosts:
Justin Caffrey, Gen X, former monk trainee, mindfulness master, high-performance coach, and recovering finance guy.
Colm Hayes, Baby Boomer, veteran broadcaster, radio legend, and lifelong professional contrarian.
In this no-holds-barred opening episode, they attempt to answer a heartfelt listener question about sibling rivalry, social comparison, and the anxiety of being the “less flashy” brother. The advice quickly derails into stories of being beaten up by sisters, awkward blind dates, failed relationships, swearing girlfriends, and carless boyfriends.
You’ll also hear:
• Colm’s views on women wearing makeup post-40 (caution: not for the faint-hearted)
• Justin’s escape from a date involving an actual knife
• Red flags, icks, and why one of them ended up banned from the entire South Coast of England
• The idea that maybe... honest conversations could save relationships
Why the name?
They’re brothers. Sort of. Same parents, different surnames. Hayes changed his name early in his radio career for showbiz reasons. Both were educated by the Christian Brothers. Only one of them still believes in God. We’ll let you, the listener, figure out who still practices… and who most definitely does not.
Viewer discretion is advised. This format may be cancelled by Episode 2!
📣 Subscribe & Follow
🎧 New episodes every Thursday & Saturday
👍 Like, comment, and tell us: Which brother do YOU think still believes in God?
🧨 Share it with your sibling — especially if they’re annoying!
Produced by: High Tide Studios
Series Producer: Rebecca Horan
Camera, Editing, and Set: Terry Loughran
Studio Location: Watson Johnson Centre, Mill Road, Greystones, Ireland
🕒 Timestamps
00:00 – Intro & legal name change
#IrishPodcast #FunnyPodcast #ComedyPodcast #RealTalkPodcast
Listener Barbara sends in a DM that kicks off one hell of a conversation:
“I can only have sex with my husband after a few drinks. Is this normal?”
Cue a brutally honest debate between Colm and Justin that covers:
Sober sex vs. sex on booze or drugs
Scheduled sex in long-term marriages (Justin is all for it – Colm is horrified)
Menopause, honesty, and bedroom communication
Catholic guilt, libido, and how tequila might be the answer (or not)
From awkward truths to completely unqualified advice, this episode doesn’t hold back.
🚨 PLUS:
We take a detour into celebrity breakups, why they dominate headlines, and which brother really couldn’t care less. (Hint: It’s not the one ranting about Gwyneth Paltrow.)
📺 Full video here on YouTube
🎧 Also available on all the usual places you get your podcasts
🔔 Subscribe for unfiltered takes, big laughs, and zero therapy credentials.
#NotSoChristianBrothers #ColmHayes #JustinCaffrey #MarriageTalk #SoberSex #CatholicGuilt #PodcastEpisode #ComedyPodcast #HonestConversations #RealTalkPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #MenopauseMatters #MarriageHumour #PodcastOfTheWeek #YouTubePodcast #SpotifyPodcast #ApplePodcasts #SexAndMarriage #DMAdvice #CelebrityBreakups #IrishPodcast #MiddleAgeUnfiltered #PodcastClips
Meet your hosts:
Justin Caffrey, Gen X, former monk trainee, mindfulness master, high-performance coach, and recovering finance guy.
Colm Hayes, Baby Boomer, veteran broadcaster, radio legend, and lifelong professional contrarian.
In this no-holds-barred opening episode, they attempt to answer a heartfelt listener question about sibling rivalry, social comparison, and the anxiety of being the “less flashy” brother. The advice quickly derails into stories of being beaten up by sisters, awkward blind dates, failed relationships, swearing girlfriends, and carless boyfriends.
You’ll also hear:
• Colm’s views on women wearing makeup post-40 (caution: not for the faint-hearted)
• Justin’s escape from a date involving an actual knife
• Red flags, icks, and why one of them ended up banned from the entire South Coast of England
• The idea that maybe... honest conversations could save relationships
Why the name?
They’re brothers. Sort of. Same parents, different surnames. Hayes changed his name early in his radio career for showbiz reasons. Both were educated by the Christian Brothers. Only one of them still believes in God. We’ll let you, the listener, figure out who still practices… and who most definitely does not.
Viewer discretion is advised. This format may be cancelled by Episode 2!
📣 Subscribe & Follow
🎧 New episodes every Thursday & Saturday
👍 Like, comment, and tell us: Which brother do YOU think still believes in God?
🧨 Share it with your sibling — especially if they’re annoying!
Produced by: High Tide Studios
Series Producer: Rebecca Horan
Camera, Editing, and Set: Terry Loughran
Studio Location: Watson Johnson Centre, Mill Road, Greystones, Ireland
🕒 Timestamps
00:00 – Intro & legal name change
#IrishPodcast #FunnyPodcast #ComedyPodcast #RealTalkPodcast
