Colm’s Mick Jagger Theory: "Older Women Don’t Have A Sex Drive?"

This week, the lads dive headfirst into the most explosive topic of all: marriage, sex, and the reality of long-term relationships.

The debate ignites immediately with Colm’s controversial "Mick Jagger Theory"—his view that older men seek younger partners because women's sex drives diminish with age. This is immediately challenged by Rebecca, who argues that a lack of interest is often due to lack of communication, feeling unvalued, and not getting what they want in bed, not menopause.

Justin cuts through the chaos with a raw take on intimacy, explaining that a great sex life needs a "lead up"—it starts at breakfast, not with a "raging boner".

In this episode, we challenge everything you know about commitment:

• The Divorce Bombshell: Why 60% of divorces are filed by women and why men statistically benefit more from marriage.
• The Prison of Marriage: Is staying in a bad relationship "trapped consistently failing forever," and why young people view marriage as a "prison" rather than a choice.
• The Choice Problem: Terry argues that "too much choice" from social media is destroying relationships and confusing people about what they truly want.
• Dating App Shock: Colm’s hilarious (and slightly panicked) explanation of the Grindr app.

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🗓️ Release Date: Sunday, 14/12/2025

⏱️ Chapter Timings

• 00:00 – Intro: The Obsession with Celebrity Marriages (Kim Cattrall & Ryan Tubridy) 
• 02:19 – Justin: Why I Only Date Older Women (Perspective & Grounding) 
• 03:13 – Colm’s Mick Jagger Theory: Does Female Sex Drive Disappear? 
• 04:30 – Rebecca’s Rebuttal: Sex Drive vs. Feeling Valued in Bed 
• 05:54 – Justin: The Pearl Jam Song That Taught Me About Orgasm 
• 07:51 – "Sex Starts at Breakfast" – Why the Lead-up Matters 
• 09:27 – The Commitment Barrier: Why Young People Don’t Want to Work for Sex 
• 10:32 – Is Marriage a Prison? The Failure of a Split 
• 11:13 – Justin: It’s Better to Get Out Than Be "Trapped Failing Forever" 
• 11:40 – Modern Choice: Why Younger Generations Aren't Getting Married 
• 13:11 – "You Made Your Bed": The End of Sleeping in a Bad Marriage 
• 15:10 – The Divorce Stat: Why 60% of Divorces Are Filed By Women 
• 17:03 – The Gender Divide: Why Men & Women See Marriage So Differently 
• 19:15 – Terry: How "Too Much Choice" Destroys Relationships 
• 22:30 – Colm’s Grinder Revelation: "Men Near Me" 
• 23:21 – Outro & Final Call to Action

📌 Important Listener Notes

• New Shows: New episodes of the Not So Christian Brothers podcast are released every Thursday & Sunday.
• High Engagement: This episode features a highly opinionated and potentially triggering debate on sex and gender roles in relationships.
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